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Ten Golden
Rules of Serious Dating
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Set
an Agenda
Since I can't control anyone else's thoughts or
actions, I decided once and for all to control my OWN actions and set my own
agenda. In this case, I wanted to get married, and I made sure to communicate
this to everyone I knew!
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Be
Proactive
I stopped relying on "chance" encounters, and
decided to proactively go out there and meet my future wife. I knew I could
never make Ms. Right magically appear, but I sure wanted to avoid spending
significant time in places she wasn't likely to be. I made sure I placed myself
in those environments that I knew would be the most conducive to meeting the
right kind of person. For me, one key environment was my local Aish HaTorah
branch. Sure enough, I met my wife in a class on -- what else? --
"relationships!"
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Make
a "Spec's" List
I made a list of criteria in great detail (and why
not? I was beseeching the Master of the Universe!) for exactly for the type of
person I was looking for. This was the single best tool I had to avoid wasting
valuable time. How can you find something if you don't know what you're looking
for?
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Pick
the Right Crowd
I decided to avoid any and all individuals who were
clearly counterproductive to my newly stated "mission." (Note: This was
painful!)
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Make
a Fresh Start
Since I wanted to start with a perfectly clean
slate, I threw away the photos, phone numbers and personal keepsakes of every
woman I had ever dated. No more casual phone calls or birthday cards -- no more
contact whatsoever. Business is business!
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No
Expectations
I realized, once and for all, that I wasn't going to
"change" anyone, nor was anyone likely to "change" for me. I learned the hard
way that expecting anyone to significantly change over the course of time is
naïve and counterproductive.
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Get
a Second Opinion
I picked two close, trusted friends to rely on who
knew me inside and out. I made sure they met anyone I seriously considered
becoming involved with, and I listened carefully to their impressions.
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Time
Limit
Once I met someone who was in the ballpark, I gave
myself an ironclad time limit of six weeks to find out. For me, this was a
sufficient amount of time. If I wasn't sure by then, I knew it wasn't going to
happen.
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Watch
and Learn
"Kindness" is a mandatory quality that must be at
the very top of everyone's pre-qualifying list of specifications. If someone's
awfully nice to you, but awfully mean to his/her brother, mother, business
associate or headwaiter, it's time to cut your losses and move on -- quickly.
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No
Physical Intimacy
This was the toughest one of all, but absolutely
necessary. Once we become physically involved, our judgment becomes irreparably
clouded and we lose all our objectivity. Obviously there has to be "chemistry,"
but we're looking for a Life Partner here, someone to raise
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